Attracting and Seducing Women: How to Use ‘Option Limitation’ to Maximize Your Success
Getting women to feel an attraction for you – that isn’t simply based on your looks, your wardrobe, how much money you have or the car you drive – can be really tricky.
After all, how are men supposed to know what each women is looking for without asking?
If you DID ask, you know your chances would be small, after all, no woman wants a guy approaching her with questions – she wants a confident man who somehow knows what she’s after and can give to her.
So how do you do it?
How do you become the guy that just exudes confidence, dominance and presence, without turning into an arrogant ass or is desperate?
The answer lies in psychology. It’s at the heart of all persuasive social situations, and absolutely central to the success of any man’s attempts at seducing women. Simply put, by learning the CORRECT psychological rules, principles and techniques, any guy can play and WIN at the game of seduction. For example, let’s look at one such psychological technique, that used correctly boosts any guy’s chance of getting a woman’s phone number or hooking up with her at a later date by at least 50%, each and every time he uses it. It’s called option limitation and works on the following principle of human nature:
When someone’s presented with only a single choice, often their natural reaction will be to reject it and go their own way. However, when several options, the exact opposite occurs: they feel their intellectual freedom has been respected and they make their own free choice from the variety of options they’ve been presented with.
You can use this universal psychological principle when attracting or seducing a woman by carefully constructing how you pose important questions while talking to her.
For example, most men think saying: “Can I have your number?” is an okay way to finish a conversation that’s gone well with a girl. But a much more powerful and effective way of saying the same thing would be to use option limitation. Something like: “It’s been nice to meet you. Shall we swap numbers or maybe grab a bite to eat and a drink tomorrow?” What you’re doing is presenting a woman with a choice between good and better – whichever she says yes to, you win. If you only give her one option, as in the first example, she’s likely to create her own alternative, which means there’s a chance she won’t say yes to the option you gave her. When she subconsciously recognises that she’s been given a choice between multiple outcomes, she feels her intellectual freedom has been respected and she chooses one of them.
So, always use option limitation to give the impression there’s a variety of options available to the woman you want – even though each one is fine as far as you’re concerned. And to strengthen the effect of option limitation, always try to separate the choices you give the woman with the word “or.” When people hear “or” they automatically recognise that they need to make a choice, and therefore do just that.
Option limitation is just one example of how, whether they know it or not, men who are successful with women CREATE that success for themselves – not through luck or good fortune.
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