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By now you’ve probably seen hundreds of guys all over the net promoting pickup and how to seduce women guides, DVD’s and courses. And if you’re like me, you’ve probably even tried a few (in fact, I’ve probably spent a few thousand dollars on attraction and seduction education – including the seminars, books and stuff). Some of these ‘gurus’ peddling their wares know what they are talking about, but most don’t and are just in this industry for a quick buck.

For the better part of 10 years and after using dozens of guru’s material I didn’t come across ANYTHING written by a woman for men – until now. Think about it for a second . . . Who better to write a guide on how to attract beautiful women than a woman????

Let me tell you a story about a friend of mine named Nick.

First off, when it came to giving advice on how to seduce a woman or how to attract a woman,
I was the last person that you wanted to come to!
Things have changed now.

Do you suffer from these ailments (trying to sound like one of those infomercials):

Have trouble approaching women?Don’t know how to flirt with women?Have trouble talking to women?Sound like Elmer Fudd when you finally get to talk to a woman?

Questions that have confused us guys for years are finally answered, like:

What women think when we approach and start talking to them and how we can use this information to our advantage.The things girls REALLY care about most – not good looks or fast cars.How to create sexual chemistry with a woman without being an arrogant alpha male or the nice guy that always finishes last.

Need I go on? I had the same damn problems.

I mean let’s (us guys) face it, women can sometimes be a pain-in-the-ass to pick up. Their ‘little games’ and tricks to just get us to buy them drinks!

I have this buddy, Nick, that can walk up to any woman and talk with, seduce her, get a phone number with in 5 mins and/or go home with her! It pissed us off! He was average looking, made decent money (not a ton), drove a Toyota pick up . . . Just your average dude.

We grilled him to give us tips on how to attract women all the time and he just said it came naturally. Yeah that was a big help.

Now I had success every now and then but not like Nick. As a matter of fact no matter where we went he would score 90% of the time, he even seduced married women!! Dude’s good!

Well, I just recently stumbled across a pretty cool site (on how to seduce a woman) that I thought a lot of us guys would be really interested in (well those of us that are inept at picking up chicks). It’s an attraction, seduction and dating guide –

I know, I know, I initially thought what you’re probably thinking: we’ve heard it all before right? Well, not exactly.

I’ve finally found a collection of eBooks, about picking up women & dating tips for men) written by a woman – the author’s name is Tiffany Taylor. I bought access to Tiffany’s GuyGetsGirl site and instantly downloaded her 3 chunky eBooks which take you by the hand from beginner’s essentials like the importance of smiling, self-confidence up to the advanced heavily psychological stuff. There’s something in here for everybody, on how to pick up women, whatever your level and lots of really powerful techniques I’d never heard of before.

I remember thinking to myself, “women don’t really know what women want, they just know what they THINK they want” but with this one I was wrong. She goes deep into the female psyche and really does expose a few “short cuts” and easy to press attraction buttons that are present in all women. And boy do they work.

I’d say this is probably the most unique and fresh approach to attraction and seduction I’ve seen in a very long time and it is well worth checking out if you have the money. If not and you want to increase your success with beautiful women, then SAVE UP and get this guide. You won’t regret it.

I’d like to tell you more about the tactics and techniques that are in this guide, but should probably mention some other details instead.

The guide is available from GuyGetsGirl and is instantly downloadable once you’ve got access. I personally couldn’t wait to start reading and using the material so I was relieved to find each volume of the guide available separately for download (although they should of just put it in a .zip file).

All in all, I highly recommended reading GuyGetsGirl and discover how to seduce a woman!

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Introduction to Seducing A Woman

Seducing a woman is an art where a man knowingly lures or attracts a woman. Sure there can be other combination or it could be the other way around, but this book was written for straight guys. Seduction is the procedure through which you can tempt or charm a lady to make her fall for you. Seduction is very often referred to as the application of sexual desire with the main objective to charm or attract a lady to do what the seducer wants her to do. As I am sure you know, it is not necessary for men to be in love with the women in order to seduce them. Sexual attractiveness is the main factor which influences a man to seduce a woman.

A person can make use of different types of techniques to seduce the women that they are attracted to. Of course, the techniques used will be dependent on the traits of the woman and the situation that you are in. There are quite a number of social behavior theorists who are of the opinion that seduction is a unique type of persuasion. Some even describe seduction as a power that depends on psychological mastery instead of intellectual appeals, money or fame.

If you want to sleep with someone then you need to produce a situation where the woman that you are attracted to, will be attracted in return – attracted so strongly that she will act on her feelings right now, tonight. What should you do to produce this situation? You need to seduce the woman so that she will not be able to help herself but fall in lust with you. The main thing you need to remember about seduction is that you have to enhance your sexual attractiveness. If a woman does not find you sexually attractive then there is no way she is going to sleep with you. But that does not mean you have to be great looking. Unlike most men, women are not attracted so much by looks as by other factors.

You should know that the ladies are quite picky about the men that they sleep with. Other things being equal, it is usually harder for a man to seduce a woman than it is for a woman to seduce a man. As a result, men need more tips and advice on seduction as compared to women. In general, women are different than men, they think differently and they have different values. Most men do not know the right way to hold a conversation with women. Even if they do, they may not know what they should and should not talk about with a woman that they want to seduce.

The seducing woman techniques are different from woman to moman. One technique may work for a particular woman but it may not work for another woman. To know which techniques to use, you should first find out about the personality of the lady and her way of thinking. To make her attracted to you, you need to make yourself attractive to her first.

In this e-book, you are going to learn about the ways and techniques that you can use to seduce women. In addition, you will also find out what you should and should not do when you are right there with the lady.

How To Become A Chick Magnet

Have you spent quite some time in your life trying to think of a way to attract women to you? If have learnt anything about women from your endeavors then you can call yourself a psychologist now. There is a branch of study that is dedicated to discovering or finding out the type of men that most women opt for. In general the people who undertake these studies do not take into account the materialistic factors, such as money, that may attract women to men. The study is about psychology and how it affects seduction.

In recent research from Japan and Britain, it was found that the factors that influence seduction are not just how a guy smells or looks. The study reported that women are aware of the fact that good-looking guys may not be a good choice for a long-term relationship, which is what most women are looking for, deep down. They consider that handsome men are unreliable, more likely to be unfaithful and only good for short-term relationships.

In addition, this study reported that given a free choice, the type of man a woman opts for depends on her point in the menstrual cycle. It found that during the period of ovulation, women preferred fit, macho type men (who are likely to make strong, healthy babies) and for the rest of the days, they opted for less macho men who might be thought to make better long term partners. So, if you’re not a macho type of guy, you have a great chance of getting any girl, 75% of the time.

However, it is also thought that a woman’s cycle makes her more attractive to men at the time of ovulation. So there is a danger that if you always go for the girls who attract you the most at a subconscious level, you will pick out the girls who are ovulating and are not going to pick you tonight. Instead, you need to be aware of who is looking at you a lot, and choose those girls right now.

You can hugely boost your ‘score’ by always picking girls who are attracted to you. You just have to take a few simple steps to increase their numbers and, most importantly, have the confidence to believe that in any room, there will be some women who are attracted to you – no matter what you look like. Once you have that confidence and belief, it is just a matter of finding them.

Besides, if you want to attract and make women fall for you then you should ooze confidence and appear to be cool – not in the sense of following fashion, but emotionally. Be happy, content to be who you are and where you are right now, be friendly to both men and women, and do not react with anger or sulks to setbacks but accept life as it comes.

Think about the guys you know. Do you know some guys who are like that, always happy, laid back and optimistic? Do they have trouble getting girls? I bet they don’t.

So if you are out with a woman or just cruising in a nightclub or at a party, do not show your temper. This will destroy the ‘top guy’ image that you have created for yourself.

For this reason it is important not to drink too much when you are ‘hunting’. Sure you can have a drink or two, but don’t get drunk. Keep that for the times when you’re watching the game with the boys. A lot of guys mix up the two and have nights out with the guys where they drink a lot, go to a club and try to pick up girls. That’s a big mistake. Keep your drinking nights separate from your picking up nights.

Attracting and seducing women is not a difficult job at all if you know what you are doing. Everything depends on how you think and what you think. You need to set your unconscious mind so that it follows whatever instructions you give it. When you tell your unconscious mind that you are the type of guy that women go crazy over then you will find that you are filled with confidence and sex appeal. When you do this, you will subconsciously believe that you are a chick magnet and there is nothing that can stop the women from getting attracted to you.

Our mind plays a very important role in the seduction process. Now let us see how it works.

First, tell yourself that you have the power and confidence to get any girl. Say this to yourself every time you look in a mirror, at least three times a day. Tell yourself that you are a very confident person with massive sex appeal. Say it out loud and smile while you say it.

Don’t skip this step. These kind of positive affirmations are something many people skip because they feel stupid, but that stupid feeling is exactly what you need to get rid of.

Affirmations work. You will be a chick magnet as soon as women believe that you already are a chick magnet. Women will believe that you already are a chick magnet as soon as you believe it yourself. It’s that simple. Once you believe this 100%, you will find that women will not be able to take their hands off you.

There is a particular unconscious region in our brain that functions 24/7 forming our beliefs about ourselves from the thoughts that we have. You may be surprised to know that our beliefs about ourselves do not depend on what happens to us – they depend on the thoughts we have about what happens to us, our own reaction to the events of our lives. You do not need to change any of the circumstances of your life to change yourself into this happy, laid back guy. You just need to think positively (look for the positive in the circumstances and events of your life) and take charge of your life by never blaming other people for things that happen to you.

This doesn’t mean you start blaming yourself either – but just accept what happens, if is something you cannot change.

For example imagine your phone is stolen in the street. You can take action (chase after the guy, or call the police) but let’s say your action does not succeed and you lose the phone. You might get real angry and curse the ******* who stole your phone with everyone you know. You might curse the friend who ‘made you’ walk up that street. Both of these are ways of blaming others for what has happened to you. Or, you might curse yourself for having your phone in your hand in the street or being the type of guy that these things always happen to – these are ways of blaming yourself.

The confident guy would say, “I don’t have my phone – that’s a bummer. Oh well, I guess now I have to get that new model that I wanted.” Or, “Maybe this is life’s way of telling me I need to cut back on pizzas, because that’s what I’m going to have to do in order to afford a new phone.”

The guy who thinks this way is the type of guy that women adore. So, all you have to do to become the type of guy that women adore, is change your mind.

Confidence plays a huge role in the seduction process. A man is confident if he is successful and happy in life. When men have these two important aspects of life, they do not feel the need of women. Such men do not care about rejection because they know that when one door closes, another opens. It is because of their happiness and success that they are able to handle rejection well. In very simple words, we can say that a man is considered as a chick magnet if he is both successful and happy in life.

How many guys do you know who are unhappy or unsuccessful but can seduce a women?

None!

Women do not like men who are unsuccessful in life. They would most definitely not be drawn toward those men who are unhappy with their lives.

Now the question is: how can you become happy and successful in life?

True, it is not easy to achieve success and happiness but remember that both of these things are relative. Happiness is a feeling that everybody has from time to time and it is actually very simple to find things to be happy about in almost any situation, if that’s what you are looking for.

While you can also define your own success (you can set your own goals, and if you meet them, you are successful) success is a little different because other people’s definition of it will come into play. However, there are certain factors that will make you appear to be successful on your own terms so that you can be a true chick magnet.

These things are as follows:

Be generous. Women do not like men who are stingy. Be very optimistic. Approach a woman without the fear of rejection. If you are rejected then it’s not a problem. It doesn’t have to hurt you or diminish your confidence. She may have been wildly attracted to you but had personal reasons for not wanting to go home with you tonight. Anyway there is nothing you can do to change the fact so get over it – fast. Mentally tell yourself that you are a great and confident guy.A smile does not cost you any thing. So put a smile on your face all the time.Women prefer men who have a great sense of humor. So make sure that you know what to say and how to behave in front of women. Have faith and believe that you can do it. Related Blogs on Attract A WomanRelated Blogs on How To Seduce A WoanRelated Blogs on Seducing A WomanTagged as: Attract A Woman, How To Seduce A Woan, Seducing A Woman

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Making A Great First Impression On Women

How To Seduce A Woman By Making A Great First Impression

I solicited some help on this article from my friend Tiffany Taylor. Hope you learn something! =)

If you want to seduce woman ALWAYS look your best. I know this sounds REALLY obvious but you’d be amazed by how many guys don’t get the importance of this simple tip. You never know when the woman of your dreams will turn up, or where for that matter. And it’s become a bit of a cliché because it’s true — first impressions really do count.

Here are some figures to consider from my studies.

If you make a GOOD first impression, you have a 90% chance of seducing that woman at that point (10% of women for whatever reason will be unreachable for most men at ANY point – she might like women herself etc).

If you make a BAD first impression your chances of seducing a woman reduces drastically to just 20%. This means that to make her attracted to you AFTER the first 3 minutes of meeting her will be extremely difficult if her first impressions of you were bad.

It’s the difference between climbing a mountain and using a helicopter to fly up one. Good first impressions means you are on your way to the top in the helicopter, bad first impressions means you have a difficult climb to success – no helicopters for you.

Honestly, I can’t stress this enough — always try to look your best if you want to seduce a woman!

Tiff’s 5 S’s of first impressions.

Shave – Shower – Stylish – Smell – Shoes

Remember these 5 S’s and always take care of them before you go out.

Why are shoes my number 5 S?

Your shoes are the FIRST thing a woman really notices about your attire and hence your appearance. Make sure your shoes are clean and in style.

What you wear is also very important. I could try to recommend a certain look but as with all things fashionable by the time you read this it may have changed.

Get the latest GQ, Maxim Magazine, Details, Esquire or other fashionable men’s magazine’s and imitate the styles you see there — most women don’t really care what labels you are wearing as long as you look good so you don’t have to spend the Earth on clothing.

Many guys I help dress better usually comment on how strange they feel wearing clothes they are uncomfortable in, but 9 times out of 10 they start to feel comfortable, natural and even confident wearing their new wardrobe within no time.

Make sure you smell good. Again this is extremely important. Remember how you feel when a woman walks by you and she smells soooo good – you feel an instant attraction even though you don’t know her – well, that’s how women work too.

Wear a good-quality cologne, but don’t spray too much.

One squirt on both sides of the neck, and one squirt on both wrists — maximum. You don’t want to smell like you sprayed the bottle on yourself.

I recommend cool water by Davidoff or John Paul Gautier for Men (often Dubbed “JPG love juice” because women love it) if they don’t sell it where you are try to order some from abroad, this stuff is GREAT!

Here is another thing that gets my attention . . . A good watch. I don’t know why but a I always look at what type of watch a guy wears. Is it large and manly or is it a small “feminish” watch. But that’s just me.

And here’s a GREAT little SECRET that I have found will help you actually pickup about 24% of women without SAYING a word to them! Not a single word! And NO rejection either. You won’t find this anywhere else either. What you need to do is…

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How To Seduce A Woman By Persuasive Conversation!

The Art of Seduction A Woman By Conversation: Using ‘The Add-On Principle’ to Seduce Women

Persuasion is a universally recognizable component of our society. You see people influencing others everywhere you go: women trying to talk themselves out of speeding tickets, salesmen attempting to convince a potential buyer that a product’s for them, defense attorneys arguing that their client is innocent – persuasion is everywhere, used by all of us, all the time.

Somewhere it’s especially noticeable (and vital, if you want to be successful) is in the game of attraction and seducing a woman. For a man to seduce a woman – that is: find, approach, talk to her and try to take it further – he MUST understand and be able to use persuasive psychology. And it’s that fact many men are surprised by when they hear it – that being successful at seducing a woman isn’t a God given talent or a roll of the dice; it’s a skill like anything else. Today you’re going to learn a little about that skill. We’re going to look at a special persuasive psychological technique that, when used, massively increases your chances of seducing a woman. It’s called ‘The Add-On Principle’.

Picture this scene: You got to talking to a woman (with hopes of seducing her) and have been talking for quite some time. You can tell she’s enjoying the conversation and think that she’s quite smitten with you, too. You finally decide you’d like to make something happen with this woman and see her again real soon but you’re not sure what the best way is to go about making it happen. You don’t want to blow the positive dynamic that you have patiently worked so hard to create and you definitely don’t want to scare her off or get rejected. So, what can you do? Well, first of all, what do most guys do when they’re in this situation? I’ll tell you, they take one of three routes:

Path #1: THE PHONE NUMBER REQUEST. The first route has been taken so many millions of times in the past that it’s nowadays almost an act of parody – it’s asking the girl for her number. Taking this route is, 9 times out of 10, a Plan B at best. When you ask a girl for her number you not only give her control of the situation (which means she can very easily say no or slip you a phoney number), you also highlight that moment of the conversation for what it really is: an attempt at picking her up and seducing her. When she figures this out, she’s as good as gone. No women likes the idea of being picked-up because it seems sleazy and dangerous. For a woman to allow herself to be picked up, it must feel natural and unforced, she just has to “click” with you and the situation.Path #2: GOING FOR IT. This route’s most often taken at night, in bars, clubs and parties (ya know- the 11:59'er) – namely because the availability of alcohol makes this option seem a good idea. ‘Going for it’ means a guy will try to kiss the woman or cop a feel a little while after talking to her. Perhaps he’ll do it while they dance or as the place is closing and they’re leaving. Again, it’s a bad idea because it makes the girl feel used and not in control.Path #3: CHOCKING. This option, quite simply, involves choking (Oh you guys are funny when you are all toungue tied) at the last second – being unable to go through with a ‘closer’. The conversation’s gone great but the guy just doesn’t feel confident enough to ask the woman about meeting up again or something along those lines. As you can imagine, taking this route is a terrible idea in regards to being able to seduce a women.

So what do you do? The three routes above are terrible, to say the least, so what route can you take? Well, it goes without saying that you HAVE to ‘man up’ and run the risk of using a ‘closer’ if you want to ever see the woman again. Thus, your goal is to play your cards, lay it all out – in whatever form it might take – so it seem like a natural, obvious, fun option for the woman to take. To achieve this, you should justify what you’re suggesting with a REASON you should both do it. For example: “Let’s swap numbers so we can talk about that movie we both like.” Or, “We should get a coffee or hot chocolate some time, because I know a great little place that’s just opened and think you’d really like it.” When you follow up an offer (such as swapping numbers or going for a coffee) with a reason for doing it (to talk about something or because you know a nice little new place) you make the offer seem ATTRACTIVE and a NATURAL thing for the woman to say yes to. This is the essence of ‘The Add-On Principle’. When you employ it, try to always use the words “So” and “Because.” Our minds, when we hear these words, associate them with good reasons, they back things up for us in our heads. You can use this principle any time you want a suggestion you’ve made to a girl to be accepted and agreed to. For example: “Shall we go over and look at the jukebox, so we can put on some tunes we both like?” You’re taking away any hard work the girl needs to do in deciding whether or not she wants to go ahead with what you’re suggesting, simply because you’ve already given her a valid, natural-sounding reason to say “YES!”

Try it…you’ll be amazed at the results this will bring in your attempts to seduce a woman.

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How To Approach Groups Of Girls You Don’t Know

How To Approach Groups Of Girls You Don’t Know, And Get Them To Think You’re Great!

By Tiffany Taylor.

For this example I’m going to use women at a bar. I will be going into lots of other techniques for non-bar pickups too but for now, we’ll stick with this.

(Note: In fact, I even recommend you try my top places for picking up that are not bars – they are WAAAAAAAY better than ANY bar and you’ll see a massive leap in your success rates with women.)

As you know, women don’t usually go to bars on their own. They go in groups.

Approaching GROUPS of women can be extremely daunting and if you don’t know what you’re doing, you can fail BADLY with groups and like a pack of wolves they can rip you apart. I’ve seen men get cussed at, totally ignored and even drinks poured over them.

But if you do the approach RIGHT, then your success with a group of women can usually yield great results.

Whenever I suggest approaching groups of women I get LOADS of guys looking at me as though I’m from another planet. I realize that lots of guys probably don’t have the initial confidence to simply walk up to beautiful women they don’t know. Don’t worry, this can be easily solved. I’ll give you some simple tips here.

SIDE NOTE: If you have a major confidence problem then don’t worry, I have an advanced 155-page E-book called HypnoDate which almost exclusively goes into increasing your confidence with women – and it works through the power of self-reprogramming so it doesn’t matter how shy you are, this thing WILL work for you. It’s a bonus product in my site member’s area that comes with my book at no extra charge.

INCREASING CONFIDENCE EXERCISE IN THE MALL

Walk around the shopping mall and when you catch a woman’s eye, smile at her – more often than not, she’ll smile back. To start with you can do this just with shop employees. Even if they don’t WANT to smile, they probably will. Good practice. And you might even brighten a few women’s lives a little.Once you’ve gained confidence in making natural eye contact and a smile with staff, you could move onto other women in the mall. I’m not suggesting big weird freak smiles, just nice, natural friendly ones. A lot of women will smile back at you.Here’s where it might seem a little weird, but this really does help and practice and repetition will make this lots easier. Just say “hi” with a smile to women (and men if you like) as you walk around the mall. It will feel HORRIBLE at first if you are not confident but slowly, after an hour or two, it’ll seem easy.

After you’ve smiled and said hi to 20 or 30 women, you should start to feel good (as long as you don’t quit on your first negative response – this will happen and will happen when you’re approaching women to pick them up – you HAVE to learn to step out of your comfort zone if you want to be successful with women).

One of my male friends did the “smile at girls in the mall” technique and he actually ended up meeting the girl of his dreams and is still with her 3 years later – how’s that for effective!

There are loads of other techniques you can do to build your confidence, most not quite as scary as the mall one. I go into others within my book…

Right, let’s assume you now have the confidence or at least the guts to approach women you don’t know in a bar (Again, I don’t just go into bar pickups in my book, in fact, I think the best places to pick up women are NOT in a bar – I think it’s everyday places where you’re not competing with other single guys).

Firstly, let’s suppose two girls are sat together at a bar. One is the ‘ugly’ one and one is the hot one (the one you like the looks of and would like to get to know more).

You see the girls. Go up to them and talk to them NOW! Don’t waste time. Within 3 seconds of seeing them, approach them. Some people call this the 3 second rule and I must say it really does seem to work.

If you see her and like her, it’s best not to think too much about the approach, or you’re more likely to work yourself into such a state that your approach will be ineffective or you’ll just pussy out altogether!
(Don’t worry I’ll tell you WHAT to say when you get there in a future lesson). So within 3 seconds, go TALK to her!

ALWAYS, ALWAYS approach a woman from the side or an angle from the front. !!!NEVER from behind – IMPORTANT!!!

If you go up to the group at the bar and approach from behind you will INSTANTLY invoke a negative response, and they will be put on the defensive – for obvious reasons. ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS go in from the side…

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How to Seduce a Woman Using A Special Technique

How to Seduce a Woman Using ‘Deflection Theory’

By Tiffany Taylor

Before I start I want to plug my friend Calieghs site Secret Love Making Tips. She has a lot of knowledge and making love. I’d check her out if you want to have DYNAMITE SEX after you seduce your woman of choice!

There’s something that commonly happens when you are out playing the ‘seduction game’ – that is, when you are actively keeping a lookout for girls you suspect you’d like to hook-up with. Many men have experienced it, and many thousands of men still do experience it when they themselves are out playing the game. It usually goes something similar to this : you are in a group, talking to two girls. You are with a mate or 2, perhaps having drinks in a bar or at a party. You have your eye on one girl in the group particularly and want to make something occur, make a little bit of a connection. Thing is, she is establishing the hardest to attach to – sure, she grins and speaks to you nicely and respectfully, but she’s not returning your flirtatious gestures and comments much, if in any way. It is like she’s playing hard to get or something, whereas her female pals appear to be much more frolicsome and flirty.

This doesn’t happen because you are not her type or simply because occasionally these things happen ( or don’t ) – there’s a different, special reason the girl you have an interest in doesn’t appear to show interest in you and it’s got a great deal to do with psychology and social standing. You see, when you show you’re interested in a good-looking girl who’s with her friends, you inadvertently raise her ego and sense of self-worth. She knows you’ve selected and are most interested in her and likes this feeling of raised importance. However , she also knows that if she reacts by becoming actually flirty and clearly attracted to YOU, she’ll lose the higher social price she has over her buddies ( doubtless the reason you focused her in the first place ), so she therefore maintains her unattainable,’I'm a bit too good for you’ status.

However , you can blow that issue out of the water by using a special how to seduce a woman theory called “The DEFLECTION THEORY.” You turn the situation on its head and reverse the psychology of your target female by deflecting your attention AWAY from her and ONTO a few of her pals. When you show her pals ( who have lower social value/worth than your target female ) more attention and affection, you challenge her ego. Therefore to attempt to recover her supremacy in the pecking order of her bunch of friends, the girl you’re truly inquisitive about will subconsciously invest much MORE interest in you by flirting and being playful. As so many women do, she gives into needing what she feels she cannot have – and, of course, you’ll be glad to have her. She is , of course , the hottest of the group and the one you wanted in the 1st place. This is how to deflect your attention onto one of her friends to make her ( the girl you need ) feel as if her ego has been challenged and thus make her feel a rapid and undeniable need to get you interested and’win’ you back.

Tips for how to seduce a woman from “The Deflection Theory.”

Use strong eye contact when chatting to all the girls. when you’re chatting to your target female, infrequently peek away and towards one of the other girls ( who will often be chatting among themselves or to your friend/friends if you’re with any ) and give a slight grin before casting back at your target. This jackhammers a sense of competition into the subconscious of the girl you are truly interested in and immediately makes her want to fight for your attention. Casually make physical contact with her pals more than her. For example, touch them on the side of their arm to get them interested or when laughing and joking. When sitting down or standing around talking as a group, face slightly more ( as in, the direction of your body/torso ) in the direction of one of her pals more than her.

Using deflection theory to seduce a woman you are interested in’s ego and so make her want you more is only one mental technique you can use to boost your pick-up game. Mix it with others and you maximize your success with the alternative sex in methods most men have and never will experience. You can be the guy that gets the girl!

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How To Approach A Woman

What dictates how successful a person can become in any given field? Is it chance, fortune, good luck? No.

Take an athlete for example, regardless of their chosen discipline, they must WORK at becoming the best. Even if they got lucky with their genes, have a good build or quick reactions, it is absolutely vital they learn, understand and PRACTICE whatever sport it is they want to master. If they don’t, they will never be number one, or even anywhere close.

The very same principle applies to attracting and seducing women, quite simply, the looks or assets you were or weren’t blessed with naturally mean nothing if you cannot master the psychological side of the game. For example, there’s a guy who looks like Brad Pitt’s better looking long-lost brother, his body, hair and dress-sense are all flawless. But, when he opens his mouth…nothing. His attitude, personality and character fall completely flat and instantly put off every woman in the room. He’s gone from being a mysterious, handsome stranger, to an unexciting and tedious guy, who’s good for nothing except looking at and admiring – which gets very boring, very fast.

Now, the reverse. There’s a guy who doesn’t immediately stand out of the crowd because of what he looks or dresses like or because of the car he’s just rolled up in. Women are fairly neutral towards him, they neither feel attracted to him or turned off. Then, he talks and it’s like a fire has been lit, he’s fun, charming and great to be around – in short, massively attractive.

If you want to be that first guy, I don’t know what to suggest, except perhaps painful, expensive surgery. But if you’d rather resemble the second man (as any sane guy would), you need to do something a little different – you need to eradicate self-limiting beliefs. Self-limiting beliefs are the internal thoughts and feelings that hold you back and restrict your ability to succeed. They’re irrational and counter-productive thoughts that everyone has, but very few people try to get rid of – which is why so few men are truly successful with women. Here are a couple of examples of self-limiting beliefs:

“Nah, she’s too good-looking. She wouldn’t be interested in a guy like me.”“Women can sense inexperience and won’t give a guy the time of day if they think he’s not sophisticated or experienced.”“Girls only want sex with strings attached and would never consider sleeping with me unless I have money or a powerful job.”“That girl’s way too popular – just look at the guys who are already all over her. She’s rejecting them so would definitely say no to me.”

The crazy thing with self-limiting beliefs is that they only restrict YOU and you alone. They do this because they are not logical, true facts that are widely accepted as fundamental truths. They’re manifested in your mind because you feel nervous and apprehensive – it’s your body’s way of protecting itself, just like it would have thousands of years ago to stop you getting into physical danger. These days, the only danger is that you miss a golden opportunity to hook up with a great, sexy girl. Here are 3 simple rules to always remember, use them to get rid of self-limiting beliefs.

Ground yourself in the present and don’t think about the past or potential future. If you’re in a bar looking at a girl from afar, forget about times gone by that you cocked up a first impression. Furthermore, don’t try to predict what could go wrong or awry. Your goal, of meeting and getting together with a hot female, is a positive one – so keep all thoughts before, during and after meeting her positive, too.Don’t let other people mould your perception of yourself and the situation you’re in. Forget about the guys around you, all trying to impress girls and assert themselves as alpha males. When you show a care-free, easy-going attitude to how to move, talk and behave you become infinitely more attractive to women than all the men who are blatantly trying too hard.Let negative thoughts and phrases, like those above, slip completely from your consciousness. Looks, wealth and social status mean little when they aren’t accompanied by a strong, attractive persona and personality. Let your words and confident body language take precedence and forget all about superficial possessions and all-too-common “good looks.”Tagged as: How To Get A Woman, How To Impress A Woman, How To Pick Up Women

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How to Seduce a Woman Through Visualization!

How to Seduce a Woman by Using Visualization Techniques

The human mind is a powerful thing. And although its complexity and intricacy currently stretches well beyond our comprehension, we DO still have a solid grasp of what it’s capable of. It’s the driving force for inventors, philosophers, scientists and specialists all over the world. Some of our brain’s uses, however, are less well known and more infrequently used than others. Take, for example, visualisation techniques.

Visualisation techniques are most commonly associated with people who are striving to achieve success in areas of physical excellence: athletes, body builders, endurance specialists, explorers and martial artists all employ the power of visualization to help them achieve their goals. But what is it exactly?

A common misconception is that visualization is the act of imagining something to help yourself achieve an end goal. This explanation, although not a million miles away from the truth, doesn’t accurately represent the true concept of visualization. Visualization involves truly envisioning two things in your head, with as much clarity and detail as possible. First is the act itself. For example, leaping from the starting blocks at the crack of the gun, your muscles tightening, your body springing into action, each stride long and powerful driving you forward with super speed and swiftness. Second is the outcome: such as the winning of the race. You picture yourself being the first to cross that white line, decelerating to the sound of a roaring crowd. Flash bulbs explode and while your chest heaves for air, you smile in the comfort of knowing you succeeded and came first. The result of visualising both of these concepts is a powerful one – your mind and body become more prepared and more capable because you’ve already practised and gone through the motions of what is to come. Your attitude is more positive and productive and you gain the edge you need to truly succeed.

Visualization can be used in a variety of fields to help you succeed, even in attracting and seducing women. The same principle above applies, you must truly act out in your mind both the act of meeting a girl and the outcome of whatever it is you’re looking for (be it sex, a relationship, or whatever.) Here’s a few pointers to help you do this:

Make a real effort to visualize each and every detail of what you want to happen during the act of meeting and talking to a woman. See yourself smiling and saying hi to a girl in a bookstore and her replying with a shy smile and glint in her eye. Picture laughing and joking and being flirtatious – even envisage small details, like you both taking a sip of your drink at the same time. Each and every visualised moment prepares your conscious and subliminal mind for actual real-life encounters. The more you visualize and the greater detail in which you do it, the more capable and prepared you become.Once you’ve visualised the act of meeting and conversing with a girl, foresee leaving the bookstore or bar and going back to your/her place. Whatever outcome is preferable to you, picture it…see the colours, hear the sounds, feel the textures and smell the aromas.Use visualization when you’re at home AND when you’re out looking for girls that catch your attention. Doing both ensures your mind is programmed in the most prepared, positive state possible: nerves disappear and confidence grows.Tagged as: How To Attract A Woman, How To Seduce A Woman

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How to Attract & Seduce Women With Option Limitation!

Attracting and Seducing Women: How to Use ‘Option Limitation’ to Maximize Your Success

Getting women to feel an attraction for you – that isn’t simply based on your looks, your wardrobe, how much money you have or the car you drive – can be really tricky.

After all, how are men supposed to know what each women is looking for without asking?

If you DID ask, you know your chances would be small, after all, no woman wants a guy approaching her with questions – she wants a confident man who somehow knows what she’s after and can give to her.

So how do you do it?

How do you become the guy that just exudes confidence, dominance and presence, without turning into an arrogant ass or is desperate?

The answer lies in psychology. It’s at the heart of all persuasive social situations, and absolutely central to the success of any man’s attempts at seducing women. Simply put, by learning the CORRECT psychological rules, principles and techniques, any guy can play and WIN at the game of seduction. For example, let’s look at one such psychological technique, that used correctly boosts any guy’s chance of getting a woman’s phone number or hooking up with her at a later date by at least 50%, each and every time he uses it. It’s called option limitation and works on the following principle of human nature:

When someone’s presented with only a single choice, often their natural reaction will be to reject it and go their own way. However, when several options, the exact opposite occurs: they feel their intellectual freedom has been respected and they make their own free choice from the variety of options they’ve been presented with.

You can use this universal psychological principle when attracting or seducing a woman by carefully constructing how you pose important questions while talking to her.

For example, most men think saying: “Can I have your number?” is an okay way to finish a conversation that’s gone well with a girl. But a much more powerful and effective way of saying the same thing would be to use option limitation. Something like: “It’s been nice to meet you. Shall we swap numbers or maybe grab a bite to eat and a drink tomorrow?” What you’re doing is presenting a woman with a choice between good and better – whichever she says yes to, you win. If you only give her one option, as in the first example, she’s likely to create her own alternative, which means there’s a chance she won’t say yes to the option you gave her. When she subconsciously recognises that she’s been given a choice between multiple outcomes, she feels her intellectual freedom has been respected and she chooses one of them.

So, always use option limitation to give the impression there’s a variety of options available to the woman you want – even though each one is fine as far as you’re concerned. And to strengthen the effect of option limitation, always try to separate the choices you give the woman with the word “or.” When people hear “or” they automatically recognise that they need to make a choice, and therefore do just that.

Option limitation is just one example of how, whether they know it or not, men who are successful with women CREATE that success for themselves – not through luck or good fortune.

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Frame Control – The Art of Verbal Jujitsu

Written by LondonPaladin on June 29, 2010 Categories: Educational, inner game

Man.  WordPress deleted my blog post on this topic TWICE.  How crap is that?  So let's start over one more time.

Most people learn about the term "frame control" when learning about shit tests.  I love that term, but unfortunately most people hear it and don't correctly understand it.  She's not giving you shit – she's testing to see if you're full of it.  And let's be honest, most puas are full up to the brim of the stuff.  So we shouldn't be surprised that women want to see if we are what we claim to be.  Think of it as a woman kicking the tires.

But let's get to the core of the matter.

A frame, or paradigm, is how you see the world.  Every single person out there has a frame that is unique to them.  Think of it this way.  You look at the world through a window.  The frame around the window determines how you see things.  If you're frame is star-shaped then everything will looks like stars.  If your frame is yellow that color will tint everything. 

You're frame is built out of your beliefs.  These beliefs have a great range.  Here are some beliefs that I have:  I am a man.  My parents love me.  I have blue eyes.  I am intelligent.  I am good at my job.  I deserve success.  Women like me.  I am attractive.  I am better than most men with women.  I am a good dating coach.  I am a great dating coach.  Other dating coaches respect me.  I have a lot to offer the world.

Some of these beliefs seem so basic and yet I know of a person who believes the opposite of each one of these about themselves.  I know plenty of people who were born as men but they don't think of themselves as men.  That one belief changes how they view the whole world and how they deal with it.

You have to think about your core beliefs.  Do you believe you are attractive?  The stronger your frames, the more difficult it is for someone to shake them.

When two people meet their worldviews meet.  Two people cannot interact successfully with conflicting worldviews.  So there are only 3 outcomes every single time you meet a new person. 

If you walk up to a woman and think to yourself that you don't deserve her.  If your worldview wins, you will have convinced her that you don't deserve her.  For this reason a weak initial frame keeps most men from having beautiful, amazing women.  Think about all those guys you have seen with a woman and you thought "Why is SHE with HIM?"  Guess what – he doesn't believe that!  He thinks he deserves her.  In fact, he probably thinks she is lucky to be with him.

When you are journeying along the path of the pickup artist, you will often pretend to be something you're not.  We have all been told to fake it til we make it.  There is a discrepency between who you are and who you WANT to be.

This goes through my mind all the time.  Every time I stretch my arms a little I feel this.  Whenever I grow in business I am nervous.  Last week I closed a huge deal that is worth ALL my other deals put together.  I was nervous and felt like maybe I didn't deserve it. We all go through these feelings.  It's reality.

When you are learning to become better with women you will have similar feelings.  The first time you talk to a 6 or 7 or 8 or 9 or 10, in the back of your mind you will experience a little bit of doubt.  It's at this moment that a woman will deliver a shit test.  It can feel like a kick to the stomach.  But if you realize that she is actually reacting to your own self-belief you will be able to handle the moment effectively.

What do I do if she says …..?

I get this question all the time from students.  There are as many surprises as there are women.  If you just try and prepare for each case, you will be studying forever.  And your personality will disappear into an ocean of fixed responses.  You don't want to approach it this way.

If you are fully self-actualized then being tested won't matter to you.  You probably won't even notice them.  As I have gotten better at game, the way I deal with these frame tests has changed.

Are you gay?

I have probably been asked this question more than a thousand times by women.  If you had a time machine you could go back and watch each time a woman said this to me.  My reaction would tell you exactly where I was on my journey to seduction masterhood. 

When I first started talking to women and a girl would ask if I was gay I would think to myself that it was all over.  I had failed to seduce her.  And I would eject from the conversation as fast as I could.  As I got better I tried out different witty responses.  I always considered this the biggest hurdle to my game.  I slowed down my speech and I moved my arms around less.  And women stopped asking if I was gay.  But I would forget all the time.

Now when a woman asks if I am gay my whole mindset has changed.  I realized a couple of things.  I only care if a man is gay if he is hitting on me.  I only care if a woman is gay if I am attracted to her.  It's the same as asking if she has a boyfriend.  So now I see this question as a HUGE sign of attraction.  If a woman asks if I am gay then I know it's ON!

What changed?

Now my frame is much stronger.  I believe that all women are attracted to me.  I can't imagine a woman not being attracted to me.  I'm too dynamic and amazing.  You should feel the same way about yourself.

Frame control is a way of controlling the interaction.  You want to turn what she says into what you WANTED her to say.  If a woman asks if I'm gay I can either think (1) She sees how weak I am and is rejecting me or (2) she is letting me know she's attracted.

The greatest example of frame control is from the movie 300.

Persian -  Our arrows will block the sun.

Spartan – Then we shall fight in the shade.

He has been a pickup artist since 2007 and a professional dating coach for over 2 years now. He has taught in London, Mexico, Los Angeles and is now traveling all over the United States teaching students in their hometowns.

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Finding Yourself

It's funny how we get into pickup because we want more women in our lives and as soon as that starts to happen we realize that it wasn't the problem, just a symptom.

It's like that amazing line from Brad Pitt in Fight Club.  "We're a generation of men raised by women.  I'm wondering if another women is really the answer we need."  Like all of my brothers – my fellow wings, coaches, instructors and acolytes I have discovered that I want more.  It's why my life has exploded in so many directions.

Once guys start having more girls or cuter girls or sometimes it's just ANY girls in their lives, they start to look for more projects.  The path of self-discovery seems to have no endpoint.  Soon it becomes all about inner game.  Developing an iron sense of self.  Then you want financial independence.  After that you start to seek locational independence.

I am moving on that path myself.  I have expanded my business ventures in a dozen directions in the last few months.  Like every other guy I know in pickup, internet marketing is one of those directions.  Hopefully my new project will work out and I'll be in a really good financial position within a few months. 

But this post isn't about me, it's about you.

As you move along this journey and track your progress with your blog, who you are and what you want will change.  I used to just want to get married so bad.  I thought it would solve all of my problems.  Now I see the world in a completely different way.  I keep changing careers.  I am 29 and I am still finding myself and exploring every passion.

To be honest, there is nothing I love more than teaching guys what's possible.  Pickup is just the medium for the education.  It's a means to an end. 

So start trying the things you have always wanted to do or the things you've always been afraid to do.  You might just find yourself.

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Get a Girlfriend – We all got into this because we want to get a girlfriend

Sometimes we focus on so many other projects in life that we forget how nice it is to have a woman in our arms.  So now your sitting here on the internet asking yourself "How can I get a girlfriend?"  It's ok.  I asked myself the same question a few years ago.  Now that I am a professional dating coach I have the answer. 

The majority of dating is inside your head.  If you walk up to a woman thinking that she can fix some part of your life, well that is destined for failure.  Girls want to be an ADDITION to your life, not a solution. So let's start by creating the foundation of a man women want to be with.  Once you know who you really are it's much easier to figure out what you want in a woman.  Too many people work really hard to get a girlfriend and then realize she's not the woman they want.  So let's avoid that up front.

Confidence.  There is nothing more important than believing in yourself.  Have you ever dated someone who you thought was amazing, but they felt like they didn't deserve you?  This destroys every relationship.  The moment a girl asks me why I picked her or says she doesn't deserve me, I know the relationship is doomed.  Whether it's been a few months or just a few drinks.  Relationships can only endure if they are equal.  So if you have low self confidence, you will only get women who have low self confidence.  And guess what?  They are the women that cheat the most.  Not because they are sinister or evil, but because they need constant affirmation.

It's easy to say BE CONFIDENT and you will get a girlfriend.  I know that.  What's hard is telling you exactly how to become more confident, bit I am going to do it.  If you actually follow my instructions you will change your life – fast.  You need to sit down and make a list.  I want you to make a list of things you have always wanted to do but haven't for some reason.  And I want you to make a list of things you are afraid of.  Whether this list has 10 items or 100 doesn't really matter.  There are benefits to going in either direction.  Once you have this list your job is to set up a time frame for crossing them all off of that list.

I make my list at the beginning of each year.  I have set all sorts of goals.  From walking up to 2000 women in bars and starting a conversation to getting offered a job as a dating coach by a major company.  I set goals that have to do with business and my personal life.  Just every aspect.  Now I don't hit every goal.  But I hit a lot of them.  This year my goals were all about business.  I wanted to work for myself and make a certain amount of money.  Right now I have hit one target and tomorrow I'm re-negotiating a contract that will give me the second.  By writing it down and telling people in my life I created accountability.  If you look at the top of this website there is a link called goals.  I list and cross off all of my goals every year.  In a public place.

As far as facing your fears.  This is how you become stronger as a person and become the man who can get a girlfriend.  Iron sharpens iron.  You want to make a knife sharp you don't put it in a river, you use a strong stone.  I am really afraid of heights.  Well actually I am way less than I used to be.  I have climbed mountains alone to face this fear.  I push myself to the edge.  When you are alone facing a real danger it's where you find out exactly who you are.  Last year I spent a few hours being interrogated in a 3rd world country.  I was in deep.  But guess what? I stuck to my guns and got out of it.  And the girl I was with.  Because I know what it's like to be afraid.  And I still act.

You want to know the ultimate secret? How to get a girlfriend?  It's this.  Women are only looking for one thing.  Every single thing I will teach you boils down to this.  Women are looking for a guy who can handle it IF…..

They want a guy who can handle it IF their home gets robbed.  IF he loses his job.  IF she gets pregnant.  IF they lose a child…..

That's what emotional security boils down to.  It's why women are attracted to criminals.  They are survivors and they aren't afraid of danger or trouble.

So carve yourself out of wood.  Learn to be confident in ALL of your life.

It sounds so obvious.  But most people lie. 

If you have feeling for a girl you should tell her when they happen.  Playing games and dancing around it is weak.  Guys who play games are not men.  They are boys. 

When I am attracted to a woman I tell her instantly.  I don't wait 6 months to become her best friend and then listen to all of her secrets.  I meet so many girls who have a guy in their lives that is trying this strategy.

These guys always get to watch me or some other dude hook up with their dream girl.  And I know what I am talking about because I used to be that dude.  Before I found myself I let women walk all over me.  I hid my feelings and that lie created a terrible situation.

There are a lot more layers, but this lesson is about keeping it SIMPLE.  It doesn't have to be hard to meet women.  Most other gurus and dating coaches will tell you that is has to be complicated.  Maybe you want a complicated solution.  I'm sorry but I am not going to lie to you brother.  If you really work on parts 1 and 2 then the final step is EASY.

It always amazed me how many guys have never asked a girl out.  If you don't ask how are you going to get a girlfriend?

I ask out tons of girls.  And the truth is that plenty of them say no.  I just don't care.  I don't want to earn a girl's attraction.  I know who I am and I'm not interested in a girl who doesn't see what makes me amazing.  In later lessons I will go into detail on how to ask a woman out, but for now keep it simple.

Just ask a girl to a situation where you are powerful.  Bring her to your home bar or a club where everyone knows you.  Don't take her to an awkward expensive dinner.  It doesn't work.  It's not real life and it's a horrible first date.  You want to go somewhere that you are comfortable.  I usually ask a girl to come for drinks at the bar closest to my home.  Or I take a girl to fly kites at the park.  I want somewhere that she is comfortable where there is a possibility of kissing.  To learn about the kissing guide, just sign up for my mailing list and you get a free copy of my HUGE guide to getting a first kiss.

This is how you get a girlfriend.

He has been a pickup artist since 2007 and a professional dating coach for over 2 years now. He has taught in London, Mexico, Los Angeles and is now traveling all over the United States teaching students in their hometowns.

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Atlanta with TenMagnet – Day 1

Written by LondonPaladin on May 27, 2010 Categories: bootcamp, pickup artist, tenmagnet

So I am in Atlanta after the worst roadtrip of all time.  It normally takes 3-4 hours to get here from Nashville, but a pit opened in the middle of the free way.  The damn thing was 25 feet deep.  I never even got to see it, but traffic was backed up to a complete stop.  Everyone just turned their cars off for hours.  Took me nearly 8 hours and 2 redbulls to get here.

Last night I just grabbed a couple of beers and chilled with TenMagnet.  Hard to believe we haven’t chilled in nearly two years.  Not since SuperConference in LA back in 2008.  We have stayed in touch through some forums, facebook etc. 

We have just been swapping bootcamp stories and shooting the shit about all the instructors we know in common.  It’s cool to be hanging out with someone I really respect.  He’s got a bootcamp this weekend and I’m just hanging out and helping out.  I really look forward to tearing it up in field tonight. 

A local lair guy is letting me crash in an extra bedroom in his apartment all weekend as well.  Which is totally badass.  So far this city has been really welcoming.  I almost             stopped off to see this girl yesterday on my way to Atlanta.  She would only guarantee that we could hang out.  And not anything more.  So I didn’t bother.  Let’s be honest I’m just too damn lazy.

So now I’m sitting in some conference room waiting for the action to begin.  There is no internet in this hotel for some damn reason, so I’m just going to be writing articles and blog posts all day I reckon.  C’est la vie.

He has been a pickup artist since 2007 and a professional dating coach for over 2 years now. He has taught in London, Mexico, Los Angeles and is now traveling all over the United States teaching students in their hometowns.

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Dating a Professional Cheerleader

So I'm out with my bro in law, well it's my sister's boyfriend but it's super long term, and we hit the bars on Friday night.  I'll shorten my usual lengthy intro and get to it.  I am just hanging out with him and not working girls but of course I end up talking to a professional sports team cheerleader.  I don't wanna say which team or too much because I know you sneaks will figure it out….

Her chubby glum roomate is super lame but she doesn't stop us from talking and doesn't even force my bro to talk to her.  She lets him sneak off to call my sister.  So I chat to this girl for like an hour or so and she seems awesome.  We start talking about Orbital.  Now if a girl knows about Orbital I instantly like her.  Of course if her body is tight as a drum as well…..I think you get the idea.  She is digging on me super hard so I get the digits.  I can't just go home with her because I got my bro with me and I am not putting him in that awkward situation.  I know he would just sit in the living room talking to the chubster, but my sis would be wicked mad.  I don't need family drama.

So me and him slip off.  When I get home she starts blowing up my phone.  I'm so bored.  I have nothing to do.  etc….  She just dumped her boyfriend of a year and a half earlier that day.  She doesn't say too much but I get the feeling the relationship was tumultuous.  I get a little bit of a Lifetime movie vibe.

She is smoking hot, so I wanna creep on her so bad.  I'm too drunk to drive over to her place and it's just too complicated a situation.  The next night I'm going out with some new dude from the local lair.  I'm not teaching so I just go out to raise hell.  I know I'm gonna get drunk so I take a taxi to the bar.  The whole way there my cheerleader is blowing me up.  Text text text.  She agrees to meet me at 1am for a date.  I think we all know what that means.

So I hang out with the dude for a couple of hours, but that's a sidestory.  She has to go home and change after her part time job.  I'm like I am sure you look fine etc….  I hate waiting.  But it was worth it.  She is wearing the tightest black dress of all time.  You can see everything.  All the guys are scoping her when she walks in and she comes straight up to me.  I get that full LondonPaladin feeling.  Like hell ya I still got it!  You know?  21.  Smoking hot. Cheerleader.  Into me.  It's allll good.

So we have a couple of beers.  She kinda lets me know that her last boyfriend was super possessive and it was a problem.  I'm like babe I'm the opposite.  A bunch of guys she knows walk up and it's clear they are orbiters.  Instead of my usual move of Tanking them (from My Best Friends Girl – great movie) I just tell her that I gotta use the bathroom and that they seem like really nice guys.  I disappear for like 20 minutes.  Some gorilla tries to start a fight with me in the toilets but my complete disinterest overwhelms him and he walks off.

I come back and we chill a bit more and then she's like I guess it's time to go home.  She asks how I got to the bar.  I let her know I have no car and she offers to give me a ride back to mine.  Ten minutes later we are back at her place.  We end up chilling on her porch and drinking beers for three hours or something.

I never felt that sexual spark.  Usually I just know in my guts when it's time to go for it.  And I just never felt it.  it's weird.  I can tell she's attracted to me and I'm attracted to her, but the physical is just all off.  At 4am or so she tells me it's time to drive me home.  We are now in her bedroom and I tell her that I hate that moment when we get to my house and it's awkward and I'm like do I kiss her or do I not kiss her etc.  She is like I just broke up with a long term bad relationship yesterday so I'm not ready to do anything.

I'm a nice guy at heart and by now I have the feeling that things between them were physical and not in the good way.  So I'm not gonna pressure a girl who's this damaged.

We get back to mine and I start to get out of the car and she's like what?  I don't get ANYTHING?  So I go for the kiss immediately and we have a high school style kiss.

I already know at this point that all signs point to crazy and that I should never talk to her again.  You just get that feeling.  Obviously I now can't resist her.

We have plans to hang out Sunday but she sends me the friends text.  She tells me she is too damaged and needs time away from boys.  Yay!

So come Friday I'm out at the bar with JohnnyC69 getting my wasted on.  I am friends with a part time model/bartender and she was hooking it up.  I know we did at least 6 or 7 free shots.  So it all got hazy.  At some point she came to meet up with us and I try to ditch Johnny.  Because I am an asshole.

But he comes back and joins us for a few minutes.  I'm hammered so my first thought is "this son of a bitch is creeping on my new toy" but really he was bored of the other girls around us.  He talks to us for ten minutes and he is like dude that girl has the lowest self esteem of all time.  You need to get out of here.  Stay away from her.  My attraction skyrockets because crazy girls know how to bring the noise in bed.

I'm so hammered that I then lose her talking to her friends.  Two underage girls start creeping on me because they think I'm with her.  It's great.  All I remember is that she left without me and when I realize it and call her she's gone home. I take a taxi home and consider my epic drinking problem.

Saturday night at 1am.  8Days since first contact.

She calls me and says she's bored and wants to see me.  She says all of her friends are out of town and she is lonely.  I am sitting in my room programming so what do you think I would rather do.  Some times I just think with my little brain.

I can't really describe the course of events after I arrived.  Time lost all meaning in the vortex of insanity so I can only offer you some highlights.  And I promise you that this is at most 30% of the crazy shit she said.  It's been two weeks and I am really trying to block it all out.

She opens her mail and finds a huge bill from the hospital.  She tears it up and says 'let's see those fuckers try and get me to pay when I'm dead."

She tells me how she met a guy in the hospital with a big red mark on his neck.  He tried to hang himself.

She decided not to date him because "You shouldn't date people you meet in the asylum."

That's right all you HATERS.  I found a girl who was actually in the mental hospital.  So don't ever tell me you met a crazy girl until you meet a girl who got locked up for it!

She starts saying how she is texting with her ex again.  I instantly know she will get back together.

He is a really good guy.  He just gets super jealous because he is really insecure and doesn't realize what a great guy he is.

He is almost 30 and basically unemployed but he's just finding himself.

She isn't allowed to go out or be near any other guys because he gets really jealous.  He cheated on his last girlfriend a LOT so he knows that it's easy to cheat. 

When he goes out with his friends he turns off his phone and he yells at her.  He needs his own space and privacy.  I point out at this point that he is 100% cheating on her and she explains that no – she is too hot to be cheated on.

She concludes this story by saying that yes he hit her.  But only once.  And it was really her fault for starting it.  And he will never do it again.

At this point she goes from calling him her x to calling him her boyfriend.  That's right.  That set of stories made her want to get back with him.

She went on about how he's her first true love and she's willing to work really hard and just wishes he would work really hard too.  She also mentions that she loves to watch Lifetime movies.  I laugh and tell her she's living one.

Then things started getting really crazy.

It's all such a blur I wish I had recorded it. 

I finally wanted to leave because I was just so bored after an hour of this.  She blocked the window with her leg.  Yes.  You go in and out through the window.  And is like you can't leave me right now.  She intimates that she might kill herself if I leave.

I am really turned on be emotional blackmail.

But don't worry.  It's all getting better.

She starts telling me about the girl's she is friends with that I should meet.  Like the one who had a baby last month but put it up for adoption.  Or the girl she got kicked out of high school with.

The whole time I am texting JohnnyC69 telling him what to tell the cops when they find my body in the woods.

The highlight of the evening was at dawn.  I am still trying to leave.  So she fakes appendicitis.

I am not even joking her.  She starts screaming and telling me she has unbelievable pain in her side.  Now I'm freaked out that if I leave she might die.  I do not want that conversation with the cops.  Especially with my fingerprints on the window and shit.

So I keep googling medical stuff on my phone and telling her that it might be an STD.  Some of them have the side effect of insanity.  she says this isn't possible.  Finally the pain just goes away after 2 hours.  The longest 2 hours of my life.  And I got trapped inside a rollercoaster in Japan.   By myself.  This was worse.

She tells me that she can't wait to hang out again.  I tell her that I will never see her again.  As I'm leaving I do try to get one last kiss.  I mean come on.  I am still a little bit of a creep.  She explains that our first kiss is the only time she's ever cheated on her boyfriend and doesn't want to do it again.  She asks if we can just be friends.

Um.  I don't need friends that I fear will cut me in my sleep.  But thanks.

First of all.  Her attraction was diminishing by the moment after our first encounter.  The sexual spark was there that first night and each time after that was less and less.  Why you ask?  Because this girl is bat shit crazy and wants to get back with her ex because he treats her bad.  Which is her fetish.

I needed to go home with her that first night and have that rebound sex and then never talk to her again.

I also ignored all the warning signs.  I actually screen for crazy pretty hard when I meet girls.  Then I ignore my warnings.

That first night at her house I could feel it happening.  I was thinking too much comfort + not enough physical = let's be best friends!

Now the reason the physical is off is because she is attracted to abusive relationships.  This means that all of her physical signs and signals are off.  I don't speak that language so I don't know how to turn her on.  That's why we ended up with me becoming like an orbiter.

I kept going back after I knew she was crazy.  I basically live for the adventure.  I went over to her house because I knew it would be a great blog post.

It's just not worth it.  I have access to lots of beautiful women.  I need to avoid this type of girl.

Also, I cut out HUGE portions of her terrifying stories.  I didn't even tell you anything about her mom or her several crazy dads.  So when you see me in person, feel free to ask!

I am a professional dating coach. I love traveling the world and helping men find a better life.

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Daygame / Daytime Dating

Written by LondonPaladin on August 5, 2010 Categories: Educational, day game, daytime dating

Have you ever wanted to start dating women in the daytime? Then you're ready for the new guide from my mentor LondonSoul:

This book is awesome.  He has been writing it for over two years if you can believe it.  There has been more love and field testing put into this guide than anything I have ever seen before. Check out my first experience meeting a woman on the streets of London.  This was about two years ago and I'll try to find the old blog post later…I can't seem to locate it right now.  I can tell you it was summer 2 years ago and my hero Soul was teaching me a little daytime dating in Leicester Square.  (man I can't believe I spelled that right on the first try!) I look so young there!

One day I was sitting on the tube in London and there was a stunning girl across from me.  I wanted to talk to her so bad but I just didn't know what to say.  I remember thinking that I felt chained to my seat.  I decided at that moment that I wanted to know how to meet any woman anywhere and anyplace.  I never wanted to feel that way again.  And I can honestly say that LondonSoul's teachings played a MAJOR role in breaking those chains.  Without learning daytime dating I never would have: Hooked up with a major model in Sweden Met dozens of models on the streets of London Realized that there is no woman I can't get And so much more….all thanks to learning daytime dating I have been lucky enough to have become friends and been trained by basically the best dating coaches and pickup artists in the world – from every system you can name.  I have never been more than 1 degree of separation from the big names you have heard of – whether it's Style, Mystery and Tyler Durdren or the newer generation of Brad P, Mr M, Braddock, AFC Adam etc…. So when I tell you a book is good I know what I'm talking about.  LondonSoul was my first mentor and he will always have a special place in my heart.  (Also because I had sex in his bed with 2 women, but he only knows about 1 of them.)

He has been a pickup artist since 2007 and a professional dating coach for over 2 years now. He has taught in London, Mexico, Los Angeles and is now traveling all over the United States teaching students in their hometowns.

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6 Essentials On How To Attract Women

Impressing girls is as simple as learning your ABCs. Some would say that you have to be the master of this trade. But you can never master it if you will not try it. So what’s the secret in attracting women? Check out these six great essentials on how to attract women fast. So go and get out there and apply these now:

1. Look Clean, Smell Clean
To attract women is to smell really clean and handsome. Your pheromones do all the magic that will make girls turn their heads on you. Women love men who are clean inside out. So be sure to check your hair for any embarrassing flakes, your nails for any dirt, and your clothes for anything that would mess your looks. Use a not so strong but still very musky scent that will surely impress girls even from a distance.

2. The Laws Of Attraction
The Laws of Attraction tells you that whatever you desire most in your heart and you kept on thinking about getting it, then the universe will conspire for you to really have it. Believe that you could get girls and imagine yourself being with girls. The more your feel that you will really make it then you really will. It is but natural for men and women to be attracted to each other as they were made for each other. But how would you know that she is the right person for you for a relationship? You don’t, because you will not know it until you have finally spoken with her. To be able to speak to her, you have to show to her that you are someone she will really like. How to impress girl with the laws of attraction is to simply mean – be natural, be yourself, and be confident!

3. Never Settle For Less
Don’t be desperate in getting girls. Women will think that you are not someone to be trusted since you will just settle for anyone who comes to you whom you don’t even have a liking with. If you feel that she’s the one, then go for her. Do not waste your time with someone with whom you do not make any connections with. It’s a big turn on for girls knowing that you’re waiting for that right person.

4. Be A Little Rough
A nice guy is a good guy, but someone who is too nice is somebody whom girls think who has another ulterior motive that will pose as a threat to the girls. Don’t show too much sweetness to the girl if you are to attract girls. To impress girls is to be a little rough and girls will get really hot on that manliness. How to be rough and clean at the same time is a matter of your body language, the type of clothes you wear and the way you talk and look at the girl. Passion will surely come bursting into flames!

5. Do Not Reveal Too Much Too Soon
Being honest is ok, but sometimes, revealing so much of your emotions so soon will only end up in a heartache. Get to know first the girl in the deeper level before you show what you really feel inside. You might never know that she already has somebody and you’ll be picking up your heart in the dumpster.

6. Flowers Are Great, Make It A Fresh
To attract women is to shower them with gifts. It’s true that women like to be pampered every now and then. But when you do give them a flower, make sure it is something significant and not cheap! Girls will know where you got that particular flower and a messy and limp bouquet of wilted flowers won’t get you anywhere near her. Keep in mind that not all girls are materialistic, but sometimes, you have to show her what you feel in a way that she will keep on guessing. This will keep the mystery alive and she’ll run after you.

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