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By now you’ve probably seen hundreds of guys all over the net promoting pickup and how to seduce women guides, DVD’s and courses. And if you’re like me, you’ve probably even tried a few (in fact, I’ve probably spent a few thousand dollars on attraction and seduction education – including the seminars, books and stuff). Some of these ‘gurus’ peddling their wares know what they are talking about, but most don’t and are just in this industry for a quick buck.

For the better part of 10 years and after using dozens of guru’s material I didn’t come across ANYTHING written by a woman for men – until now. Think about it for a second . . . Who better to write a guide on how to attract beautiful women than a woman????

Let me tell you a story about a friend of mine named Nick.

First off, when it came to giving advice on how to seduce a woman or how to attract a woman,
I was the last person that you wanted to come to!
Things have changed now.

Do you suffer from these ailments (trying to sound like one of those infomercials):

Have trouble approaching women?Don’t know how to flirt with women?Have trouble talking to women?Sound like Elmer Fudd when you finally get to talk to a woman?

Questions that have confused us guys for years are finally answered, like:

What women think when we approach and start talking to them and how we can use this information to our advantage.The things girls REALLY care about most – not good looks or fast cars.How to create sexual chemistry with a woman without being an arrogant alpha male or the nice guy that always finishes last.

Need I go on? I had the same damn problems.

I mean let’s (us guys) face it, women can sometimes be a pain-in-the-ass to pick up. Their ‘little games’ and tricks to just get us to buy them drinks!

I have this buddy, Nick, that can walk up to any woman and talk with, seduce her, get a phone number with in 5 mins and/or go home with her! It pissed us off! He was average looking, made decent money (not a ton), drove a Toyota pick up . . . Just your average dude.

We grilled him to give us tips on how to attract women all the time and he just said it came naturally. Yeah that was a big help.

Now I had success every now and then but not like Nick. As a matter of fact no matter where we went he would score 90% of the time, he even seduced married women!! Dude’s good!

Well, I just recently stumbled across a pretty cool site (on how to seduce a woman) that I thought a lot of us guys would be really interested in (well those of us that are inept at picking up chicks). It’s an attraction, seduction and dating guide –

I know, I know, I initially thought what you’re probably thinking: we’ve heard it all before right? Well, not exactly.

I’ve finally found a collection of eBooks, about picking up women & dating tips for men) written by a woman – the author’s name is Tiffany Taylor. I bought access to Tiffany’s GuyGetsGirl site and instantly downloaded her 3 chunky eBooks which take you by the hand from beginner’s essentials like the importance of smiling, self-confidence up to the advanced heavily psychological stuff. There’s something in here for everybody, on how to pick up women, whatever your level and lots of really powerful techniques I’d never heard of before.

I remember thinking to myself, “women don’t really know what women want, they just know what they THINK they want” but with this one I was wrong. She goes deep into the female psyche and really does expose a few “short cuts” and easy to press attraction buttons that are present in all women. And boy do they work.

I’d say this is probably the most unique and fresh approach to attraction and seduction I’ve seen in a very long time and it is well worth checking out if you have the money. If not and you want to increase your success with beautiful women, then SAVE UP and get this guide. You won’t regret it.

I’d like to tell you more about the tactics and techniques that are in this guide, but should probably mention some other details instead.

The guide is available from GuyGetsGirl and is instantly downloadable once you’ve got access. I personally couldn’t wait to start reading and using the material so I was relieved to find each volume of the guide available separately for download (although they should of just put it in a .zip file).

All in all, I highly recommended reading GuyGetsGirl and discover how to seduce a woman!

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Introduction to Seducing A Woman

Seducing a woman is an art where a man knowingly lures or attracts a woman. Sure there can be other combination or it could be the other way around, but this book was written for straight guys. Seduction is the procedure through which you can tempt or charm a lady to make her fall for you. Seduction is very often referred to as the application of sexual desire with the main objective to charm or attract a lady to do what the seducer wants her to do. As I am sure you know, it is not necessary for men to be in love with the women in order to seduce them. Sexual attractiveness is the main factor which influences a man to seduce a woman.

A person can make use of different types of techniques to seduce the women that they are attracted to. Of course, the techniques used will be dependent on the traits of the woman and the situation that you are in. There are quite a number of social behavior theorists who are of the opinion that seduction is a unique type of persuasion. Some even describe seduction as a power that depends on psychological mastery instead of intellectual appeals, money or fame.

If you want to sleep with someone then you need to produce a situation where the woman that you are attracted to, will be attracted in return – attracted so strongly that she will act on her feelings right now, tonight. What should you do to produce this situation? You need to seduce the woman so that she will not be able to help herself but fall in lust with you. The main thing you need to remember about seduction is that you have to enhance your sexual attractiveness. If a woman does not find you sexually attractive then there is no way she is going to sleep with you. But that does not mean you have to be great looking. Unlike most men, women are not attracted so much by looks as by other factors.

You should know that the ladies are quite picky about the men that they sleep with. Other things being equal, it is usually harder for a man to seduce a woman than it is for a woman to seduce a man. As a result, men need more tips and advice on seduction as compared to women. In general, women are different than men, they think differently and they have different values. Most men do not know the right way to hold a conversation with women. Even if they do, they may not know what they should and should not talk about with a woman that they want to seduce.

The seducing woman techniques are different from woman to moman. One technique may work for a particular woman but it may not work for another woman. To know which techniques to use, you should first find out about the personality of the lady and her way of thinking. To make her attracted to you, you need to make yourself attractive to her first.

In this e-book, you are going to learn about the ways and techniques that you can use to seduce women. In addition, you will also find out what you should and should not do when you are right there with the lady.

How To Become A Chick Magnet

Have you spent quite some time in your life trying to think of a way to attract women to you? If have learnt anything about women from your endeavors then you can call yourself a psychologist now. There is a branch of study that is dedicated to discovering or finding out the type of men that most women opt for. In general the people who undertake these studies do not take into account the materialistic factors, such as money, that may attract women to men. The study is about psychology and how it affects seduction.

In recent research from Japan and Britain, it was found that the factors that influence seduction are not just how a guy smells or looks. The study reported that women are aware of the fact that good-looking guys may not be a good choice for a long-term relationship, which is what most women are looking for, deep down. They consider that handsome men are unreliable, more likely to be unfaithful and only good for short-term relationships.

In addition, this study reported that given a free choice, the type of man a woman opts for depends on her point in the menstrual cycle. It found that during the period of ovulation, women preferred fit, macho type men (who are likely to make strong, healthy babies) and for the rest of the days, they opted for less macho men who might be thought to make better long term partners. So, if you’re not a macho type of guy, you have a great chance of getting any girl, 75% of the time.

However, it is also thought that a woman’s cycle makes her more attractive to men at the time of ovulation. So there is a danger that if you always go for the girls who attract you the most at a subconscious level, you will pick out the girls who are ovulating and are not going to pick you tonight. Instead, you need to be aware of who is looking at you a lot, and choose those girls right now.

You can hugely boost your ‘score’ by always picking girls who are attracted to you. You just have to take a few simple steps to increase their numbers and, most importantly, have the confidence to believe that in any room, there will be some women who are attracted to you – no matter what you look like. Once you have that confidence and belief, it is just a matter of finding them.

Besides, if you want to attract and make women fall for you then you should ooze confidence and appear to be cool – not in the sense of following fashion, but emotionally. Be happy, content to be who you are and where you are right now, be friendly to both men and women, and do not react with anger or sulks to setbacks but accept life as it comes.

Think about the guys you know. Do you know some guys who are like that, always happy, laid back and optimistic? Do they have trouble getting girls? I bet they don’t.

So if you are out with a woman or just cruising in a nightclub or at a party, do not show your temper. This will destroy the ‘top guy’ image that you have created for yourself.

For this reason it is important not to drink too much when you are ‘hunting’. Sure you can have a drink or two, but don’t get drunk. Keep that for the times when you’re watching the game with the boys. A lot of guys mix up the two and have nights out with the guys where they drink a lot, go to a club and try to pick up girls. That’s a big mistake. Keep your drinking nights separate from your picking up nights.

Attracting and seducing women is not a difficult job at all if you know what you are doing. Everything depends on how you think and what you think. You need to set your unconscious mind so that it follows whatever instructions you give it. When you tell your unconscious mind that you are the type of guy that women go crazy over then you will find that you are filled with confidence and sex appeal. When you do this, you will subconsciously believe that you are a chick magnet and there is nothing that can stop the women from getting attracted to you.

Our mind plays a very important role in the seduction process. Now let us see how it works.

First, tell yourself that you have the power and confidence to get any girl. Say this to yourself every time you look in a mirror, at least three times a day. Tell yourself that you are a very confident person with massive sex appeal. Say it out loud and smile while you say it.

Don’t skip this step. These kind of positive affirmations are something many people skip because they feel stupid, but that stupid feeling is exactly what you need to get rid of.

Affirmations work. You will be a chick magnet as soon as women believe that you already are a chick magnet. Women will believe that you already are a chick magnet as soon as you believe it yourself. It’s that simple. Once you believe this 100%, you will find that women will not be able to take their hands off you.

There is a particular unconscious region in our brain that functions 24/7 forming our beliefs about ourselves from the thoughts that we have. You may be surprised to know that our beliefs about ourselves do not depend on what happens to us – they depend on the thoughts we have about what happens to us, our own reaction to the events of our lives. You do not need to change any of the circumstances of your life to change yourself into this happy, laid back guy. You just need to think positively (look for the positive in the circumstances and events of your life) and take charge of your life by never blaming other people for things that happen to you.

This doesn’t mean you start blaming yourself either – but just accept what happens, if is something you cannot change.

For example imagine your phone is stolen in the street. You can take action (chase after the guy, or call the police) but let’s say your action does not succeed and you lose the phone. You might get real angry and curse the ******* who stole your phone with everyone you know. You might curse the friend who ‘made you’ walk up that street. Both of these are ways of blaming others for what has happened to you. Or, you might curse yourself for having your phone in your hand in the street or being the type of guy that these things always happen to – these are ways of blaming yourself.

The confident guy would say, “I don’t have my phone – that’s a bummer. Oh well, I guess now I have to get that new model that I wanted.” Or, “Maybe this is life’s way of telling me I need to cut back on pizzas, because that’s what I’m going to have to do in order to afford a new phone.”

The guy who thinks this way is the type of guy that women adore. So, all you have to do to become the type of guy that women adore, is change your mind.

Confidence plays a huge role in the seduction process. A man is confident if he is successful and happy in life. When men have these two important aspects of life, they do not feel the need of women. Such men do not care about rejection because they know that when one door closes, another opens. It is because of their happiness and success that they are able to handle rejection well. In very simple words, we can say that a man is considered as a chick magnet if he is both successful and happy in life.

How many guys do you know who are unhappy or unsuccessful but can seduce a women?

None!

Women do not like men who are unsuccessful in life. They would most definitely not be drawn toward those men who are unhappy with their lives.

Now the question is: how can you become happy and successful in life?

True, it is not easy to achieve success and happiness but remember that both of these things are relative. Happiness is a feeling that everybody has from time to time and it is actually very simple to find things to be happy about in almost any situation, if that’s what you are looking for.

While you can also define your own success (you can set your own goals, and if you meet them, you are successful) success is a little different because other people’s definition of it will come into play. However, there are certain factors that will make you appear to be successful on your own terms so that you can be a true chick magnet.

These things are as follows:

Be generous. Women do not like men who are stingy. Be very optimistic. Approach a woman without the fear of rejection. If you are rejected then it’s not a problem. It doesn’t have to hurt you or diminish your confidence. She may have been wildly attracted to you but had personal reasons for not wanting to go home with you tonight. Anyway there is nothing you can do to change the fact so get over it – fast. Mentally tell yourself that you are a great and confident guy.A smile does not cost you any thing. So put a smile on your face all the time.Women prefer men who have a great sense of humor. So make sure that you know what to say and how to behave in front of women. Have faith and believe that you can do it. Related Blogs on Attract A WomanRelated Blogs on How To Seduce A WoanRelated Blogs on Seducing A WomanTagged as: Attract A Woman, How To Seduce A Woan, Seducing A Woman

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Making A Great First Impression On Women

How To Seduce A Woman By Making A Great First Impression

I solicited some help on this article from my friend Tiffany Taylor. Hope you learn something! =)

If you want to seduce woman ALWAYS look your best. I know this sounds REALLY obvious but you’d be amazed by how many guys don’t get the importance of this simple tip. You never know when the woman of your dreams will turn up, or where for that matter. And it’s become a bit of a cliché because it’s true — first impressions really do count.

Here are some figures to consider from my studies.

If you make a GOOD first impression, you have a 90% chance of seducing that woman at that point (10% of women for whatever reason will be unreachable for most men at ANY point – she might like women herself etc).

If you make a BAD first impression your chances of seducing a woman reduces drastically to just 20%. This means that to make her attracted to you AFTER the first 3 minutes of meeting her will be extremely difficult if her first impressions of you were bad.

It’s the difference between climbing a mountain and using a helicopter to fly up one. Good first impressions means you are on your way to the top in the helicopter, bad first impressions means you have a difficult climb to success – no helicopters for you.

Honestly, I can’t stress this enough — always try to look your best if you want to seduce a woman!

Tiff’s 5 S’s of first impressions.

Shave – Shower – Stylish – Smell – Shoes

Remember these 5 S’s and always take care of them before you go out.

Why are shoes my number 5 S?

Your shoes are the FIRST thing a woman really notices about your attire and hence your appearance. Make sure your shoes are clean and in style.

What you wear is also very important. I could try to recommend a certain look but as with all things fashionable by the time you read this it may have changed.

Get the latest GQ, Maxim Magazine, Details, Esquire or other fashionable men’s magazine’s and imitate the styles you see there — most women don’t really care what labels you are wearing as long as you look good so you don’t have to spend the Earth on clothing.

Many guys I help dress better usually comment on how strange they feel wearing clothes they are uncomfortable in, but 9 times out of 10 they start to feel comfortable, natural and even confident wearing their new wardrobe within no time.

Make sure you smell good. Again this is extremely important. Remember how you feel when a woman walks by you and she smells soooo good – you feel an instant attraction even though you don’t know her – well, that’s how women work too.

Wear a good-quality cologne, but don’t spray too much.

One squirt on both sides of the neck, and one squirt on both wrists — maximum. You don’t want to smell like you sprayed the bottle on yourself.

I recommend cool water by Davidoff or John Paul Gautier for Men (often Dubbed “JPG love juice” because women love it) if they don’t sell it where you are try to order some from abroad, this stuff is GREAT!

Here is another thing that gets my attention . . . A good watch. I don’t know why but a I always look at what type of watch a guy wears. Is it large and manly or is it a small “feminish” watch. But that’s just me.

And here’s a GREAT little SECRET that I have found will help you actually pickup about 24% of women without SAYING a word to them! Not a single word! And NO rejection either. You won’t find this anywhere else either. What you need to do is…

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How To Seduce A Woman By Persuasive Conversation!

The Art of Seduction A Woman By Conversation: Using ‘The Add-On Principle’ to Seduce Women

Persuasion is a universally recognizable component of our society. You see people influencing others everywhere you go: women trying to talk themselves out of speeding tickets, salesmen attempting to convince a potential buyer that a product’s for them, defense attorneys arguing that their client is innocent – persuasion is everywhere, used by all of us, all the time.

Somewhere it’s especially noticeable (and vital, if you want to be successful) is in the game of attraction and seducing a woman. For a man to seduce a woman – that is: find, approach, talk to her and try to take it further – he MUST understand and be able to use persuasive psychology. And it’s that fact many men are surprised by when they hear it – that being successful at seducing a woman isn’t a God given talent or a roll of the dice; it’s a skill like anything else. Today you’re going to learn a little about that skill. We’re going to look at a special persuasive psychological technique that, when used, massively increases your chances of seducing a woman. It’s called ‘The Add-On Principle’.

Picture this scene: You got to talking to a woman (with hopes of seducing her) and have been talking for quite some time. You can tell she’s enjoying the conversation and think that she’s quite smitten with you, too. You finally decide you’d like to make something happen with this woman and see her again real soon but you’re not sure what the best way is to go about making it happen. You don’t want to blow the positive dynamic that you have patiently worked so hard to create and you definitely don’t want to scare her off or get rejected. So, what can you do? Well, first of all, what do most guys do when they’re in this situation? I’ll tell you, they take one of three routes:

Path #1: THE PHONE NUMBER REQUEST. The first route has been taken so many millions of times in the past that it’s nowadays almost an act of parody – it’s asking the girl for her number. Taking this route is, 9 times out of 10, a Plan B at best. When you ask a girl for her number you not only give her control of the situation (which means she can very easily say no or slip you a phoney number), you also highlight that moment of the conversation for what it really is: an attempt at picking her up and seducing her. When she figures this out, she’s as good as gone. No women likes the idea of being picked-up because it seems sleazy and dangerous. For a woman to allow herself to be picked up, it must feel natural and unforced, she just has to “click” with you and the situation.Path #2: GOING FOR IT. This route’s most often taken at night, in bars, clubs and parties (ya know- the 11:59'er) – namely because the availability of alcohol makes this option seem a good idea. ‘Going for it’ means a guy will try to kiss the woman or cop a feel a little while after talking to her. Perhaps he’ll do it while they dance or as the place is closing and they’re leaving. Again, it’s a bad idea because it makes the girl feel used and not in control.Path #3: CHOCKING. This option, quite simply, involves choking (Oh you guys are funny when you are all toungue tied) at the last second – being unable to go through with a ‘closer’. The conversation’s gone great but the guy just doesn’t feel confident enough to ask the woman about meeting up again or something along those lines. As you can imagine, taking this route is a terrible idea in regards to being able to seduce a women.

So what do you do? The three routes above are terrible, to say the least, so what route can you take? Well, it goes without saying that you HAVE to ‘man up’ and run the risk of using a ‘closer’ if you want to ever see the woman again. Thus, your goal is to play your cards, lay it all out – in whatever form it might take – so it seem like a natural, obvious, fun option for the woman to take. To achieve this, you should justify what you’re suggesting with a REASON you should both do it. For example: “Let’s swap numbers so we can talk about that movie we both like.” Or, “We should get a coffee or hot chocolate some time, because I know a great little place that’s just opened and think you’d really like it.” When you follow up an offer (such as swapping numbers or going for a coffee) with a reason for doing it (to talk about something or because you know a nice little new place) you make the offer seem ATTRACTIVE and a NATURAL thing for the woman to say yes to. This is the essence of ‘The Add-On Principle’. When you employ it, try to always use the words “So” and “Because.” Our minds, when we hear these words, associate them with good reasons, they back things up for us in our heads. You can use this principle any time you want a suggestion you’ve made to a girl to be accepted and agreed to. For example: “Shall we go over and look at the jukebox, so we can put on some tunes we both like?” You’re taking away any hard work the girl needs to do in deciding whether or not she wants to go ahead with what you’re suggesting, simply because you’ve already given her a valid, natural-sounding reason to say “YES!”

Try it…you’ll be amazed at the results this will bring in your attempts to seduce a woman.

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How To Approach Groups Of Girls You Don’t Know

How To Approach Groups Of Girls You Don’t Know, And Get Them To Think You’re Great!

By Tiffany Taylor.

For this example I’m going to use women at a bar. I will be going into lots of other techniques for non-bar pickups too but for now, we’ll stick with this.

(Note: In fact, I even recommend you try my top places for picking up that are not bars – they are WAAAAAAAY better than ANY bar and you’ll see a massive leap in your success rates with women.)

As you know, women don’t usually go to bars on their own. They go in groups.

Approaching GROUPS of women can be extremely daunting and if you don’t know what you’re doing, you can fail BADLY with groups and like a pack of wolves they can rip you apart. I’ve seen men get cussed at, totally ignored and even drinks poured over them.

But if you do the approach RIGHT, then your success with a group of women can usually yield great results.

Whenever I suggest approaching groups of women I get LOADS of guys looking at me as though I’m from another planet. I realize that lots of guys probably don’t have the initial confidence to simply walk up to beautiful women they don’t know. Don’t worry, this can be easily solved. I’ll give you some simple tips here.

SIDE NOTE: If you have a major confidence problem then don’t worry, I have an advanced 155-page E-book called HypnoDate which almost exclusively goes into increasing your confidence with women – and it works through the power of self-reprogramming so it doesn’t matter how shy you are, this thing WILL work for you. It’s a bonus product in my site member’s area that comes with my book at no extra charge.

INCREASING CONFIDENCE EXERCISE IN THE MALL

Walk around the shopping mall and when you catch a woman’s eye, smile at her – more often than not, she’ll smile back. To start with you can do this just with shop employees. Even if they don’t WANT to smile, they probably will. Good practice. And you might even brighten a few women’s lives a little.Once you’ve gained confidence in making natural eye contact and a smile with staff, you could move onto other women in the mall. I’m not suggesting big weird freak smiles, just nice, natural friendly ones. A lot of women will smile back at you.Here’s where it might seem a little weird, but this really does help and practice and repetition will make this lots easier. Just say “hi” with a smile to women (and men if you like) as you walk around the mall. It will feel HORRIBLE at first if you are not confident but slowly, after an hour or two, it’ll seem easy.

After you’ve smiled and said hi to 20 or 30 women, you should start to feel good (as long as you don’t quit on your first negative response – this will happen and will happen when you’re approaching women to pick them up – you HAVE to learn to step out of your comfort zone if you want to be successful with women).

One of my male friends did the “smile at girls in the mall” technique and he actually ended up meeting the girl of his dreams and is still with her 3 years later – how’s that for effective!

There are loads of other techniques you can do to build your confidence, most not quite as scary as the mall one. I go into others within my book…

Right, let’s assume you now have the confidence or at least the guts to approach women you don’t know in a bar (Again, I don’t just go into bar pickups in my book, in fact, I think the best places to pick up women are NOT in a bar – I think it’s everyday places where you’re not competing with other single guys).

Firstly, let’s suppose two girls are sat together at a bar. One is the ‘ugly’ one and one is the hot one (the one you like the looks of and would like to get to know more).

You see the girls. Go up to them and talk to them NOW! Don’t waste time. Within 3 seconds of seeing them, approach them. Some people call this the 3 second rule and I must say it really does seem to work.

If you see her and like her, it’s best not to think too much about the approach, or you’re more likely to work yourself into such a state that your approach will be ineffective or you’ll just pussy out altogether!
(Don’t worry I’ll tell you WHAT to say when you get there in a future lesson). So within 3 seconds, go TALK to her!

ALWAYS, ALWAYS approach a woman from the side or an angle from the front. !!!NEVER from behind – IMPORTANT!!!

If you go up to the group at the bar and approach from behind you will INSTANTLY invoke a negative response, and they will be put on the defensive – for obvious reasons. ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS go in from the side…

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How to Seduce a Woman Using A Special Technique

How to Seduce a Woman Using ‘Deflection Theory’

By Tiffany Taylor

Before I start I want to plug my friend Calieghs site Secret Love Making Tips. She has a lot of knowledge and making love. I’d check her out if you want to have DYNAMITE SEX after you seduce your woman of choice!

There’s something that commonly happens when you are out playing the ‘seduction game’ – that is, when you are actively keeping a lookout for girls you suspect you’d like to hook-up with. Many men have experienced it, and many thousands of men still do experience it when they themselves are out playing the game. It usually goes something similar to this : you are in a group, talking to two girls. You are with a mate or 2, perhaps having drinks in a bar or at a party. You have your eye on one girl in the group particularly and want to make something occur, make a little bit of a connection. Thing is, she is establishing the hardest to attach to – sure, she grins and speaks to you nicely and respectfully, but she’s not returning your flirtatious gestures and comments much, if in any way. It is like she’s playing hard to get or something, whereas her female pals appear to be much more frolicsome and flirty.

This doesn’t happen because you are not her type or simply because occasionally these things happen ( or don’t ) – there’s a different, special reason the girl you have an interest in doesn’t appear to show interest in you and it’s got a great deal to do with psychology and social standing. You see, when you show you’re interested in a good-looking girl who’s with her friends, you inadvertently raise her ego and sense of self-worth. She knows you’ve selected and are most interested in her and likes this feeling of raised importance. However , she also knows that if she reacts by becoming actually flirty and clearly attracted to YOU, she’ll lose the higher social price she has over her buddies ( doubtless the reason you focused her in the first place ), so she therefore maintains her unattainable,’I'm a bit too good for you’ status.

However , you can blow that issue out of the water by using a special how to seduce a woman theory called “The DEFLECTION THEORY.” You turn the situation on its head and reverse the psychology of your target female by deflecting your attention AWAY from her and ONTO a few of her pals. When you show her pals ( who have lower social value/worth than your target female ) more attention and affection, you challenge her ego. Therefore to attempt to recover her supremacy in the pecking order of her bunch of friends, the girl you’re truly inquisitive about will subconsciously invest much MORE interest in you by flirting and being playful. As so many women do, she gives into needing what she feels she cannot have – and, of course, you’ll be glad to have her. She is , of course , the hottest of the group and the one you wanted in the 1st place. This is how to deflect your attention onto one of her friends to make her ( the girl you need ) feel as if her ego has been challenged and thus make her feel a rapid and undeniable need to get you interested and’win’ you back.

Tips for how to seduce a woman from “The Deflection Theory.”

Use strong eye contact when chatting to all the girls. when you’re chatting to your target female, infrequently peek away and towards one of the other girls ( who will often be chatting among themselves or to your friend/friends if you’re with any ) and give a slight grin before casting back at your target. This jackhammers a sense of competition into the subconscious of the girl you are truly interested in and immediately makes her want to fight for your attention. Casually make physical contact with her pals more than her. For example, touch them on the side of their arm to get them interested or when laughing and joking. When sitting down or standing around talking as a group, face slightly more ( as in, the direction of your body/torso ) in the direction of one of her pals more than her.

Using deflection theory to seduce a woman you are interested in’s ego and so make her want you more is only one mental technique you can use to boost your pick-up game. Mix it with others and you maximize your success with the alternative sex in methods most men have and never will experience. You can be the guy that gets the girl!

Tagged as: Deflection Technique, How To Seduce A Woman, Tiffany Taylor

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