It's funny how we get into pickup because we want more women in our lives and as soon as that starts to happen we realize that it wasn't the problem, just a symptom.
It's like that amazing line from Brad Pitt in Fight Club. "We're a generation of men raised by women. I'm wondering if another women is really the answer we need." Like all of my brothers – my fellow wings, coaches, instructors and acolytes I have discovered that I want more. It's why my life has exploded in so many directions.
Once guys start having more girls or cuter girls or sometimes it's just ANY girls in their lives, they start to look for more projects. The path of self-discovery seems to have no endpoint. Soon it becomes all about inner game. Developing an iron sense of self. Then you want financial independence. After that you start to seek locational independence.
I am moving on that path myself. I have expanded my business ventures in a dozen directions in the last few months. Like every other guy I know in pickup, internet marketing is one of those directions. Hopefully my new project will work out and I'll be in a really good financial position within a few months.
But this post isn't about me, it's about you.
As you move along this journey and track your progress with your blog, who you are and what you want will change. I used to just want to get married so bad. I thought it would solve all of my problems. Now I see the world in a completely different way. I keep changing careers. I am 29 and I am still finding myself and exploring every passion.
To be honest, there is nothing I love more than teaching guys what's possible. Pickup is just the medium for the education. It's a means to an end.
So start trying the things you have always wanted to do or the things you've always been afraid to do. You might just find yourself.
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He has been a pickup artist since 2007 and a professional dating coach for over 2 years now. He has taught in London, Mexico, Los Angeles and is now traveling all over the United States teaching students in their hometowns.
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